Your perspective
Notice which forms of closeness, independence, support, and reciprocity matter most to you.
Relationship values reflection
Clarify what closeness, trust, freedom, and care mean to you.
A 70-item reflection on the values, needs, and everyday patterns you bring to close relationships. It is not a relationship diagnosis, compatibility verdict, therapy, crisis service, safety assessment, or a basis for deciding what another person should do.
16–20 minutes20 reflection areas
Start the assessmentA reflection, not a verdict
Use the report to name your preferences and patterns, not to grade yourself or someone else.
Care and safety
If a relationship feels unsafe, coercive, or threatening, seek local trusted support or emergency help rather than relying on this reflection.
How the relationship values reflection is organized
This reflection asks you to clarify views about closeness, trust, independence, reciprocity, and care.
The result is a private prompt for naming your own priorities and discussing them respectfully. It does not diagnose relationship health, safety, or compatibility.
Frequently asked questions
Which relationship values does it explore?
It explores closeness, trust, independence, reciprocity, and care.
Does it tell me whether a relationship is healthy?
No. It reflects your answers and is not a relationship-health or safety assessment.
How long is it?
It takes about 18 minutes.
Can two people compare scores?
The reflection is designed to clarify your own priorities; it does not produce a compatibility verdict.